The Sexualization of Early Childhood

My reaction to the topic was not surprising because I see sexualization everyday and in my community in which young girls as early as age 5 dancing like Biance Knowles, wearing short dresses or skirts and exposing other body parts. It is sad because as I was growing I never seen young children behave in such a manner. I see that as time changed along with technology such as use of internet, facebook, twitter, television ads, music, and cellphones, that children are influenced in by so many forces. This topic demonstrates that sexualization is hitting every race, ethnic group, economic status, and gender (Levin & Kilbourne 2009). The message that commercials, music, movies, and games are sending is outrageous because the younger children are the future and this type of behavior is being viewed as acceptable even by some parents.  The reason that I say this is because for example small children are able to listen to certain explicit songs on the radio while driving in the car with parents, who make the child feel it is ok to repeat and demonstrate what they hear and see. I see parents dressing to sexy in front of the children and the children especially little girls want to dress like mom. From my experience of witnessing mothers dress too explicit and hang out with their kids is a bad example. There are boys that see their fathers go from woman to woman and even laugh about with their sons, giving them the idea that it is ok to have multiple sex partners. Girls want to be popular and it seems that if they see that dressing inappropriately for their age and conducting certain behaviors is getting that attention, than they are all for it. I believe boys want attention in another way; boys want to be viewed as heroes and bad boys.  

I believe that when the boys are influenced by video game violence and see how girls express their interest in boys that conduct negative behavior and get all the attention, boys do whatever they can. Early childhood professionals can take preventive action, however educators cannot do alone. Educators need the parents to be involved in monitoring, education, communicating and demonstrate a positive lifestyle and environment for the child to understand what is appropriate (Levin & Kilbourne 2009). The educator can assist in communicating with children on the consequences of unsafe sex, violent activities, drug and alcohol abuse and soliciting their body for acceptance and approval of someone else.  

Levin, D. E., & Kilbourne, J. (2009). [Introduction]. So sexy so soon: The new sexualized childhood and what parents can do to protect their kids (pp. 1-8). New York: Ballantine Books. Retrieved from: http://dianeelevin.com/sosexysosoon/introduction.pdf