Friday, May 11, 2012

My Family Culture

If there was a catastrophe and my family had to move to a permanent place outside in a country in which the culture was different from my own, the three things that I would take is the photo album, a blanket that has been in the family for decades and necklace that has been passed down to each female that was married. I would explain to other people that each item is part of my culture and they all will remind me of our family tradition and memorable moments. If I was told that I could only keep one item of the three once I arrive in another country, I would feel really sad and that my cultural values and traditions were being ignored. The insights that I gained with this exercise is that not every culture value the same thing. I gained the knowledge of knowing that every culture is different and has different beliefs and traditions that are different from my own. I also learned that my family culture means a great deal to me and I want to always remember how close we are and no matter where I go, I want to always honor my tradition, values and beliefs. I want to state that I believe that it is important to learn cultural differences and what is a value to each, so that each cultures beliefs, family structure, religion and values are respected.

4 comments:

  1. Tammie we had some of the same things in common that we would take along with us. I would take a photo album which hold many family memories and well as a pair of earrings that my mom gave me on my weddinig day to marry in. These items I have great sentimental value.

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  2. Tammie,
    I feel the same way too. I could not imagine the extent of damages to physical, psychological and emotional aspect of losing one's identity due to catastrophic event.

    I would be very sad not to take the things that is important to me and most of all to lose my identity and lose a part of my culture.
    Thank you for your post.

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  3. Tammie -

    Thank you for your insight into family culture. It is important that no one feels a sense of loss in their identity when a catastrophe occurs. These moments are difficult in any one's life without having to narrow their family culture down by being represented in 3 items. It would be a sad day for sure if I had to give everything up and move to an unknown destination knowing I am leaving so much of my family culture behind.

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  4. Tammie,

    Even though my family does not have a special item or heirloom that is passed down, I have always believed that this is the most memorable and purest form of history that can be passed to future generations. Items such as these are priceless and have sentimental values attached. You and your family are blessed to be able to partake in sharing an item that is beyond special.

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